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Cooties: Friendship, Dating, Etc.

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This past Sunday, we began our new sermon series for the middle school ministry for the month of February.  Cooties is a series about friendships, dating, identity, and sexual purity.  For four weeks we are going to be looking at what we can learn about dating and relationships during the middle school years.

More Than Friends

During middle school, it is very normal for people to begin having the desire to be “more than friends.”  Because of the changes that are happening, during this age we begin to look at the opposite sex differently.  While 3rd graders focus on playing tag with the opposite gender, 7th graders begin to have all kinds of ideas about what it means to be boyfriend and girlfriend.  These new attractions are normal; it’s part of growing up.  Now, what we do with these new attractions is a very important discussion to have.

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All Access: How to Pray

 

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This past Sunday, we finished our sermon series for our middle school ministry entitled All Access.  Because of the death and ressurection of Jesus we have complete and total access to our God; since we have complete access what does our prayer life look like?  The third and final message was all about “How to Pray.”

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Teaching Notes: Bad Friends

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This week, we finished off a 3 week series entitled “Me & My Peeps.”  This series was all about friendships; since friends are important to all of us, whether we are little kids, teenagers, or grown ups, it is important to look at what the Bible teaches us about choosing friends and being a good friend.  The third and final week of the series was about what to do in the cases we find ourselves with a bad friend.  What do we do when there are people who wouldn’t make good friends; should we keep our distance or still get to know them?  The best way for us to answer these questions is to dig into how Jesus responds when he is treated poorly and think about what that means for us and our relationships.

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Teaching Notes: Sanctification

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This week we finished our mini-series in our Middle School Ministry called “2 Big Words.”  Certain words in our Christian faith can be difficult to understand, and in certain occasions these difficult-to-understand words are central to our faith.  This series was about defining and exploring the importance of the words justification and santification.

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Teaching Notes: Justification

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This week we began a new mini-series in our Middle School Ministry called “2 Big Words.”  Every now and then we come across big words that are difficult to say or understand.  In Christianity, there are a couple of words that are not only central to our faith, but because the words are uncommon we might not realize how important these concepts are.  In the two weeks of this mini-series we will be talking about justification and sanctification.

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You Might Be a Middle School Pastor If

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Being around a group of other middle school ministry pastors for a weekend inspired me to make a list of random generealizations about what is true of many of us who find ourselves working with middle school students.  All of these things came from observations that I had about middle pastors while at the campference; they are all at least true of myself.

You Might Be a Middle School Pastor If…

  • You own a pair (or two) of a converse.
  • You cannot walk through wal-mart without thinking of game ideas.
  • You think poop is funny.
  • You have a nerf gun in your office.
  • You think any object can become a game.
  • You think you’re awesome at dodgeball because you normally dominate middle schoolers.
  • You love to meet other people who love middle school students.
  • Your crazy enough to believe junior high students can change the world.

What should I add to the list?

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When I Was in Junior High

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If you work with middle school students, it’s always helpful to think back to what life was like when you were in middle school.  I spent some time thinking about it, and here is the list that I came up with:

  • I wanted to be in the NBA.
  • I bought an mp3 player for $300 that held 8 songs.
  • People freaked out about Y2K.
  • Gas cost a little over $1/gallon.
  • I started using AOL Instant Messenger and created my first ever SN: rjgrune2000 still works to this day.
  • I didn’t own a cell phone.
  • My computer ran Windows 98.
  • My grandma had this crazy computer called an iMac.
  • People in schools started worrying about school shooting.
  • Pirating music became popular due to a program called napster.
  • Beanie Babies and Tamagotchi were popular for a short time.
  • I made a website dedicated to Britney Spears.
  • A teacher told me I’d make a good pastor someday; I thought she was crazy.
What was your life like in middle school?

Thoughts on the Middle School Ministry Campference

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This past weekend I got to be a part of the Middle School Ministry Campference put on by the Youth Cartel.  This event was unlike any other youth ministry conference that I’ve been to.  The main reason for this was that it took place at Spring Hill Camps, allowing it to take the best elements of a conference and mix it with the best elements of camp.  Because of the camp environment, the conference was less about listening to keynotes, although that was important, and more about spending time with the middle school ministry tribe.  I loved to be able to go to breakout discussions, play dodgeball in the gym, hang out throwing pizza boxes into the fire, or just hang out talking about life and ministry, all with other people who love middle school students.  Being at camp, all of the speakers hung out with us, which gave us a great opportunity to not only learn from them as they led breakouts or keynotes, but also to learn from them personally and get to know them as friends.

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How To Get Middle Schoolers To Worship

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Worship is an abstract concept.  Worship is anything that we do in response to God for who he is and what we’ve done.  While simple in statement, the reality is it can be a difficult thing to grasp.  Despite it being difficult, not only do I think middle school students can grasp this, I think that often they understand worship better than many adults.  In middle school ministry one of our primary goals is to lead our students in the worship of Christ.  All our students are worshippers, so as leaders we try to guide them to worship Jesus, not just in song, but with all of their life.  We want our students to worship Him in their homes, as they go to school, and as they gather together with the Church.

But beause of the place that we find middle school students, how can we teach something as abstract as worship?  When it comes to corporate worship, how can we teach them how to worship in that environment?  When it comes to our personal life, how can we teach them how to worship in all that they say and do?

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